Thursday, February 12, 2009

The grass always looks greener on the other side.

Doesn't it?!
I have single friends who are well into their twenties, and not married yet. GASP!
They want to be married, they try to meet someone to marry, they just can't, for whatever reason.
There seems to be an abundance, or what seems to be so, of single men and women out there. So, what's the problem? Why can't they just marry each other?
That aside, apparently they don't know that being married is not all that's it's cracked up to be either. It's not like your life magically turns into this fairytale and you become happier instantly. A good marriage like any project takes effort obviously. I say enjoy being single, coming and going as you please, and having only yourself to worry about, and stop complaining. You want to trade places for a day? I didn't think so!

I'm not saying that marriage can’t be fun too, and the comfort of having someone there you can rely on, and spend the REST OF YOUR LIFE with isn't an appealing thought.
I'm just saying enjoy what's left of your singleness before the mortgage payments, child care payments, and general oldness kicks in!

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